by TAadministrator | Oct 28, 2018 | Vision
Don’t do all the work! If you’re the one that is doing all the texting/messaging and you haven’t even met yet, perhaps he is having too many conversations and you are not high up on the list. So – be explicit – hey there, where are you, do you want to meet, what’s...
by TAadministrator | Oct 26, 2018 | Vision
Don’t make dinner plans as the first point of contact. I have made that mistake. If you don’t like them, it’s a SLOG to get through the meal, particularly if they order three courses! Instead, have a coffee or a quick post-work glass of wine. IRL chemistry is totally...
by TAadministrator | Oct 24, 2018 | Vision
I delete messages or swipe left if they can’t be bothered to write a few sentences about themselves. I want someone who is taking this seriously and that includes reflecting on who they are and what they want!
by TAadministrator | Oct 22, 2018 | Vision
Ask people what they want. Don’t assume they have read your profile and don’t assume they have written out what they want. I explicitly state that I am looking for a long-term long relationship, not a one-off, for example. It’s better to clarify this so you don’t...
by TAadministrator | Oct 20, 2018 | Vision
Read their profile and look at their pics before you engage. Maybe there are some flags or deal-breakers for you. I was contacted by people who lived in Florida, Northern California, Manhattan, even though I had put the settings at 30 miles from where I live! They...
by TAadministrator | Oct 18, 2018 | Vision
The second habit of online dating that I have created was shared with me by my friend Jen. If we can’t figure out a time to meet within a week or so, then move on. I am not looking for a pen pal. Also, I don’t want to date someone who won’t make time for...
