The Ability to Accept vs. The Ability to Change

At the Google conference, Wisdom 2.0 in San Francisco last weekend, I went to a talk by a renowned writer and speaker. She made a comment which stuck with me, because it seemed to encapsulate the value and importance of generalities in how we think in the East and the...

How Do We Become Compassionate to All People?

To start on this path one must develop compassion for all beings, even those who we may find challenging or perhaps even repugnant, due to their actions or words.  These challenging people are in fact our most important teachers, because without them, we have no...

Meditation keeps you young and strong!

In June I wrote about how meditation affects your brain. Specifically, fMRI scans revealed that long time meditators had increased activity in the parts of the brain that are important in processing empathy – especially in perceiving the mental and emotional state of...

Exercise your mind, exercise your body

Everyone knows the value of physical exercise. We are taught this in school, our doctors tell us this when we have check ups and even popular culture reminds us that so-and-so lost her baby weight by exercising as well as eating healthily. Why don’t we place the...

Attachment: Good or Bad?

Depending who you ask, “attachment” can be something that you strive for or something that you studiously avoid.  Both require practice, yet appear at first glance to be fundamentally different concepts. Developmental Attachment The British psychoanalyst Bowlby coined...