TRANSFORM CHAOS INTO CLARITY

LEAD FROM PURPOSE, BUILD A POWERFUL TEAM, AND CREATE A LEGACY YOU’RE PROUD TO LEAVE BEHIND.

HOW YOU SHOW UP

IS THE CULTURE.

Habits are the invisible structure underneath it. I help leaders build them with neuroscience, presence, and a lot of heart, so their culture holds when the world won’t stop shifting.

Habits are the culture. Presence is how it gets built.

Your daily habits are the architecture of your culture.

The invisible structure that holds a culture together is habit.

People deserve leadership that is fully expressed, deeply human, and radically alive.

THE MISSION

I am a neuroscientist who studies and guides habits in teams, systems and relationships. I help people & their teams connect their daily habits to their Big Juicy Why—so they can lead their personal and professional lives with clarity, regulate their nervous systems, and build lives and businesses rooted in purpose, pleasure, impact and powerful connection.

Through a mix of mindset science, habit design, and conscious leadership, I guide people to like themselves more, trust themselves deeper, and take bold, aligned action—at work, at home, and in community.

LET’S GO!

There are a number of ways you can work with me:

EXECUTIVE
COACHING

1-on-1 Support

XCHANGE
GUIDE

Event Facilitator

CONSCIOUS
LEADERSHIP
EDGE:

The Human Advantage

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Event Facilitator

STORIES FROM THE GROUND

Tamsin was the Emcee for our plenary sessions at the Midwest Coaches Conference in September 2026.

As the chair of the committee that put on the event, I had the great pleasure to work with her in the months leading up to the event and the joy of interacting with her for a few days onsite.

She brought amazing creativity to the process.

She is great at ideation and then knows when to move into action. I found this combination to be dynamic for what we were trying to achieve.

It also meant that our meetings were collaborative, fun, and action-oriented.

Tamsin is a consumate professional and I sense simply a wonderful human being. I highly recommend her for any speaking engagement.

Matt Dickerson, MBA, PCC

Certified Executive Coach | Facilitator | Speaker | Top-Selling Author | People Enthusiast | Sales Trainer

I met Tamsin in 2019 & I’ve been fortunate to have her as my executive coach for many years. She has also worked with my team to run strategic planning events, through the lens of Clifton Strengths, given a keynote at one of our conferences.  

What keeps me coming back is that she coaches the whole person, not just the job title. I came to her running on leftover energy — saying yes to everything while carrying a CEO role, teaching, my own business, and volunteer leadership all at once — and she helped me get honest about what that was actually costing me.

She never handed me a generic productivity system: she helped me build habits that fit my real life, like pausing before I commit to anything.

What sets Tamsin apart is that her coaching sticks. She’s warm and she listens closely, but she’ll also gently call you on the story you’re telling yourself. 

Lakisha Barclay, CAE, EA

Executive Director & CEO , Rubber Division, ACS


PROBLEM-SOLVING APPROACH

“In my work life I always have a problem-solving approach. I wasn’t doing that in my home life. That approach—looking at what’s working and what’s not working-has created a big shift that’s made ALL the difference.

I’ve changed the structures around it. Made new habits. I have learned to get our of the ruts. Questioning the assumptions of the habit, is that thinking useful? Just because I’ve been doing something for fifteen years doesn’t mean it’s intractable!”

LTC, Professor & Executive Director

Tamsin recently wrote and presented a fantastic conference session for our neuroscience-informed global community of mBraining coaches. Her presentation was on ‘Pause-Notice-Choose’ and it inspired and promoted us in so many ways. How Tamsin manages to be funny, informative, pragmatic all at the same time is a particularly valuable skill and everyone is still buzzing from her session. We hope she will be open to speaking again, as communicating science in a clear and compelling way is essential to helping us continue our learning. I recommend Dr Astor’s talks in the highest possible terms – she is a superstar!

 – Reb Veale

Executive Coach, Coach Supervisor, mBIT Master Trainer & Master Coach, NLP Master Trainer, occupational psychologist, supporting people and organisations to make wiser choices

 

FOLLOW ME

Nourish Your Mind

Meditate. When you get up, sit quietly and become friends with your mind. Sit on a chair, feet planted or on the floor, legs crossed. Spine in neutral curves, hands rested on your lap, gaze dropped. Place the mind on the breath - the slow inhale and exhale. When...

Feed Your Mind.

When you wake up, give yourself the gift of feeding your Mind. You can read something that is inspiring to you - rather then listening to the News which can often be negative! I have recently been reading Marcus Aurelius’ book Meditations and was struck by this...

Do this one thing every morning

Wakeup. MAKE YOUR BED. Get on with your day. Why? It’s an easy task to complete - it only takes a few moments to straighten out your bed. BUT.. it has ripple effects for the rest of the day, because you gain a sense of achievement, of succeeding which impacts how you...

Mini-cleanse Tip 3: Self-Massage/Abhyanga

Rub warm food-grade sesame, coconut or almond oil into your body & your children’s bodies and sit on an old towel for 10-20 mins, if you have the time, and then lie down in a warm bath with some tea. Add 1 c of epsom salts or himalyan salt or baking soda to the...

Do you know your Doshas?

The doshas are the organizing principles of the universe. Vata is Air and Space. Pitta is Fire and Water and Kapha is Water and Earth. If you know your unique profile, you can start getting specific (rather than general - seasons, time of day, age) with your daily...

Mini-cleanse Tip 2: Dry-brushing

Heat a small enclosed space – e.g. bathroom.  Take a shower brush or rough body-scrubber and vigorously attend to your whole body – including the soles of your feet.  You can do this with your children and lover too.

Detox Your Relationships

Give yourself time to reflect on key relationships in your life. Prioritize time to check-in - on individual goals, goals as a couple/ or family/ friend unit, supporting each other. Reduce valence if can’t reduce it: If you can’t remove the relationship, dial down the...

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